Always needing to be enough
Standards that never let up, in sport, at work, at home. We trace where that pressure came from and build something more forgiving.
Psychotherapy · Counselling · Coaching
Psychodynamic, trauma-informed psychotherapy with Luigi Garde, Registered Psychotherapist. Virtual sessions in English and Tagalog for youth, teens, adults, couples, and families.
The Life Elevator
Floors, not failures.
Take a breath
About
I'm Luigi Garde, a Registered Psychotherapist whose work is grounded in psychodynamic therapy. My approach is holistic and trauma-informed: I meet clients where they are, and I hold space for the full weight of what they're carrying, their emotions, their history, the patterns that repeat without permission.
There are seasons when life asks more of us than it usually does. Psychotherapy, in those seasons, becomes a place to trace a pattern back to its root, and to meet the parts of yourself that stay quiet everywhere else. I work with anxiety, depression, self-worth, relationship difficulties, and life transitions, not by handing over answers, but by staying curious alongside you until the shape of the thing becomes clear.
For over 31 years I've trained in Karate, competing internationally for Team Canada. That world taught me what pressure does to a mind, and how a mind can be trained to meet it. I bring that into mindset coaching for athletes and performers.
I work with people of all backgrounds and ages, and I try to build a room where everyone who enters it feels heard and genuinely supported. Sessions are available in English and Tagalog, so you can speak in whatever language your feelings actually live in.
Choose your floor
Challenges are floors, not failures. Here are some of the ones people most often arrive on.
Standards that never let up, in sport, at work, at home. We trace where that pressure came from and build something more forgiving.
Feeling unheard or like the odd one out at your own table. Drawing boundaries with the people who raised you, and protecting your peace.
The patterns that surface with a partner, in closeness and in conflict, and the quieter relationship you keep with your own worth. Both deserve attention, and they're more connected than they look.
Expectations shaped by culture, migration, and the generations before you. A space to work out what is actually yours.
Understanding everything except how to move. We build the bridge from insight to action.
Work taking more than it gives back. Finding a version of balance that includes you.
ADHD, deep reflection, or a lifelong sense of being wired differently. Strategies that fit the mind you actually have.
The moment right before it matters most. Tools for focus and composure when everything is on the line.
Services
One-on-one psychodynamic, trauma-informed therapy for adults, teens, and youth. Anxiety, depression, grief, trauma, self-worth, relationships, and life transitions.
Looking at the patterns that repeat between you, the roles each person has settled into, and what it would take to build something more honest together.
Mindset coaching for athletes and performers, drawing on sport psychology and decades of international competition. Confidence, focus, and resilience under pressure.
Rates
Effective September 20, 2026. All fees in CAD. Fees are set in line with standard rates across Ontario and reflect the work a case involves, including preparation, report writing, and care coordination.
Cost should never be the floor that keeps you from care. A lower fee is available case by case when cost is a barrier. It's based on financial need, and having insurance never raises your fee.
Receipts are claimable through most extended health plans. Direct billing where available.
Getting started
A short call to talk through what's bringing you in and see whether we're the right fit.
Two short forms that lay the groundwork for how we'll work together.
Virtual, secure, and at a time that works for you. No downloads needed.
Book a session
Book your free consultation or your next session directly below. New to working with me? Start with the free consultation so we can make sure we're the right fit.
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FAQs
A talk-based relationship between you and a Registered Psychotherapist, working together toward change in how you think, feel, relate, and live. From the Greek psyche, soul or breath, and therapeia, healing.
Therapy explores how past experience shapes present patterns. Coaching focuses on present behaviour and specific goals ahead. Psychotherapy is regulated in Ontario by the CRPO; coaching is not.
Psychotherapy isn't covered by OHIP, but receipts are claimable through most extended health plans. Please confirm with your provider.
It depends on you. Some concerns resolve in a handful of sessions; deeper patterns take longer. We'll talk about it at the consultation, and the door stays open whenever you need to come back.
Workshops
Coaching
Specific to athletes and people who are seeking to improve their mental focus, clarity and resolve in their sport competitions. You hear of Kobe’s Mamba mentality, or Michael Jordan’s relentless resolve? Using guided meditation and visualization, I can help provide a map of what steps you need to take, on top of your physical work training with your sports coach, and provide actionable steps to improve your game.
Psychotherapy
Talk therapy, Psychotherapy, Somatic and Experiential therapy offered to cover a range of issues such as grief, depression, anxiety, anger management, stress and tension reduction, sexuality, eating disorders, sexual/physical abuse, trauma, addictions, career challenges, emotional discomfort, melancholy, perpetual sadness, inner child.
Offering couples counselling around various issues that put a relationship at risk. Helping couples bridge the gap, heal their relationship wounds and create a safe, nurturing and functional relationship.
Offering family counselling around various issues. Helping parents bridge the gaps in the family dynamics and heal their own issues that might be impacting their families and help to create better communication and conflict resolutions skills.